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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Erotic asphyxiation: treatments of kink in therapy and the media - Kink and BDSM practitioners often come to an enhanced understanding of their own desires through the emphasis on personal boundaries and communicative consent which arises from a responsible approach to power and pain play.
Mirror, mirror - I found myself back there again, perched on the edge of the white expanse, spreading myself shamelessly in front of the glass
Worry - I’ve been thinking about rape culture more than ever before. On the outside, much of K’s and my play looks like sexual abuse. It’s not, because consent is always central.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
gender and misogyny: responsibility and erotic writing - I spent a good portion of my adult life being gender fluid myself ..., and have partnered with several gender fluid folks as a top. Creating representation of us and our eroticism feels so vital to me, so important.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Help End the Backlog - Speaking out works. Taking action works. Silence doesn’t. Politicians on every level need to hear your voice saying “this is unacceptable”. 76%. 3/4. That’s how many rapists get away with it on a national level.
See also: Pleasurists #111 and #112 for all your sex toy review needs
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A Tryst By The Car
Fantasy: Brand New Day
First-Time Sex: How I Lost My Virginity
Happy New Year
Indiscretions Vol. 1: Caught And Wild Chlid
Like Mother, Like Daughter (part two)
Loving her, Mounting her, Owning her
Merry Christmas Baby
Whenever I'm Alone With You
Yeeees. Date Night
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Breaking Up, Polyamory Style
Douchebagopolis - When Communication Fails At A Swinger Party
Epiphora's best and worst sex toys of 2010
Hormones & Biological Clock Ticking
Lockets, Sins and Ink
Off My Chest
Swing Shift Volume 39- One and Only
Semi-Rant Part Two
Kink & Fetish
Barely Cooking Christmas Party
Camp Smack That Ass!
Fucked in bondage
How He Does It
Master's Good Medicine
Paddled and Fucked
Parodies and Pizza Boys
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