Last night Jasper and I went to our third swinger's party. I wish I had some sordid details to share, like from our first swinger's party (start here to read about those adventures), but this party did not have the same kind of ending. I hesitate to blog about this party because it was relatively uneventful without any of the juicy details that I know my readers enjoy.
The party started at 7pm, but we were, naturally, running late, so we didn't even leave our apartment until after 8pm. Relying on public transportation always takes a bit longer to get places, so we didn't arrive at the party until around 9:30pm.
These parties are held at a hotel near the airport. Since the last party, the hotel changed names. This provided us with a minor bit of confusion as we were walking up to the hotel. Was this the right place? Was the party still here? Did I double check the location recently? We kind of tentatively walked in and up to the ballroom where the previous parties had been. Peeking inside, I saw my brother-in-law right away, so I knew we were in the right place.
And of course my sister was working the registration table. Yay!
We kind of went to the party without any goals. Our main goal right now is to make friends with people that may eventually lead to playtime, so we didn't really have any intentions of hooking up with anyone at the party tonight.
This worked well for me. I was a lot more relaxed at the party. For me, it was just much more about having fun than checking everyone out to see if there was a couple we'd like to connect with. I left that mostly to Jasper.
Instead, I dragged Jasper to the dance floor way more often than he'd probably like. Normally we're very self-conscious on the dance floor, and we only go out when there's much more of a crowd. But not Saturday night! It was so fun to just let loose and dance.
I also chatted with my sister quite a bit (there may have been a couple jello shots involved), when there was no one else in line at the registration table. We talked with one couple for a bit. It was their first party. We weren't really attracted to them, but it was still fun conversation.
Jasper also had a pretty good conversation with a smokin' hot chica (which I foolishly interrupted to have him dance with me to Cecilia). We'd seen her at previous parties, and she looks incredible! She 41 with 3 kids (two of which are adults) and looks about 27. Her husband, I think, is actually 29. He's not bad-looking either. :) They've been in the lifestyle for years, so they know a lot of people at these parties and are generally pretty occupied. They're pretty selective about who they play with, but we're hoping to get to know them a bit more at future parties.
Towards the end of the evening, Jasper went out to smoke, and I dragged my sister to the dance floor. We danced a couple songs, and then the music just went weird. The DJ was playing songs that weren't really dance-able and the floor kept completely clearing out.
I noticed a very attractive couple standing against the wall, observing the people dancing. Very out of my nature, I approached them and asked if they'd like to dance. They didn't. Two-left feet. Blah blah blah. Anyway, I stood and talked to them for awhile. The music wasn't any good at the moment anyway. We were getting along just great. I thought they were both quite attractive. He was 30; she 28. She was a petite, little thing. Rail thin. Bleach blond, short hair. Sexy smile. He was well-dressed. They both were. Nice build. Nice smile.
After a bit, Jasper joined us and shortly after that we moved to sit at a table. Give our tootsies a little reprieve. I talked with the girl; Jasper with the guy. Just getting to know each other. While we were chatting, my BIL gestured to Jasper, so he left the table to go see what was up.
This is where it got a little weird.
The guy whispered something to the girl, and she told me that he was going to the bathroom. Again. After a minute or two, I mentioned that I needed to go as well, and she said she did, too. So, we got up to go to the restroom.
Or so I thought.
I think I stopped to tell Jasper where I was going or something, but the girl was in the hall before I was. She was texting and appeared to be heading to the men's room, so I motioned that the women's on this other side. She said she was just texting him to let him know where she was. I went ahead and went into the restroom, did my business, and this couple had disappeared. She never came into the restroom, and none of us ever saw them again.
Was this the ultimate blow-off? Who knows.
So, the evening ended a little on the weird side, but I still had a great night out!!
P.S. Before we left for the party, the guy from our first threesome together texted me to see what we were up to that night. If we hadn't already had these plans, we probably would've hung out with him. Oh well. Hopefully we'll be able to play again with him soon.