So Damn Alive!

If you've been reading this blog from the beginning (which was only a handful of posts ago), you know that Jasper and I have been toying with the idea of having an open marriage.

We've discovered this is king of a tricky thing to do. We are mostly interested in having sex with another partner at the same time. The idea of doing something behind the other's back or without their knowledge is not the turn-on for us.

So, how do we find other people who would be open to this type of thing?

Craigslist, of course.

We've spent quite a bit of time browsing through the ads in the Casual Encounters section over the past few months, but last weekend, we took the plunge in answering some ads.

We even received a couple response in return.

One sounded very promising, so we made plans to meet for drinks the next evening.

Good conversation, good chemistry.

Yep, we totally got the invite back to his place. Where we fucked and fucked and fucked. I'd like to say til dawn, but unfortunately, after I've had a few drinks, I'm usually unable to remember anything from the previous night, so I can't really pinpoint how late the fucking continued.

This is a real bummer because I have to rely on Jasper to re-tell the stories. Actually, I find that quite hot. And I can imagine what it must have felt like. I have a good imagination for that type of thing. In fact it totally gets me off. I LOVE IT...still, I wouldn't mind being able to remember things myself as well.

Next time, we hope to cut back on my drinking. See if that helps. The problem then may be that my inhibitions may not be as nonexistent as they were last weekend.

Anyway, from what I was told, here are a few highlights from the evening:

• Lots and lots of ass play. Jasper said he got to play with my ass way more than he's ever gotten to before. Tongue, finger(s), cock. He even said he found a spot that drove me into ecstasy. twice.
• My first experience with DP. So frustrated I don't remember that! Definitely something I've longed to try for awhile now. I can only imagine how amazing it must have been.
• So much cock sucking. Jasper said I really did it like a pro. *blushing* Normally, I have a little problem with the taste of my cream, but apparently, I was sucking any cock I could -- no matter where it had just been. Yes, I may have even done a little ATM.
• There was a lot of movement and changing of positions. So much better than the previous threesomes Jasper's had (before he met me) where it was relatively short and static. Sad, really.
• One thing I do remember was hair pulling. Yes, I actually enjoyed it. Of course at one point, as Jasper told me later, I thought it was too much. I thought it was Jasper, but when he pointed out that it was in fact CL1, I was totally into it!
• I also remember how it felt to have CL1 bite my lower lip when his kissed me, and the chills that sprang through my fiber with his touch. Plus he told me I had nice legs. And fantastic skin.

Even though my memory is totally faulty from that encounter. The next day I felt ecstatic! exhilarated! euphoric! Well, yes, and hung-over.

I couldn't believe how ALIVE I felt!

I couldn't stop telling Jasper how ALIVE I felt. It was magnificent!

And definitely on the agenda to do it again. soon.