Several months ago, Jasper and I were in hitting a pretty major low, sexually. Neither of us felt like it. The evenings were filled with excuses. When I was in the mood, he wasn't. And vice versa.
Perhaps it was just the 5-year hump.
One day, Jasper threw it all out there. He shared his feelings with me and how my rejection of his sexual advances was affecting him.
That conversation changed everything!
It led to more and more open conversations. Now it's rare that we aren't in sync sexually.
We talk. We share. We fuck.
And the fucking is SO good!
Plus we've begun sharing our fantasies with each other. This has probably been the most exciting. Dirty talk has definitely become a staple in the bedroom. Some of these are worthy of writing down, so I'll be sharing some of our fantasies here on Sex Babble.
We fantasize about fucking people we know. We fantasize about opening our relationship.
This is the most tantalizing.
The thought of watching each other fuck someone else is breathtaking. The thought of enjoying a DP nearly throws me over-the-edge.
I have a few reservations about opening our relationship; I'm sure Jasper does as well.
One day, this fantasy will come to fruition. Definitely.