Friday, September 23, 2011

We did not have an FFM last weekend...

This may be hard to believe, but Lola's libido has not been at this usual high level. I chalk it up mostly to this intense semester.

So, to be honest, I'm not sure I was really feeling up to an FFM anyway.

Apparently, Jasper had been answering some CL ads. Mostly without any luck. Then last Friday, we actually got a reply!

Jasper was stoked; I was willing to try. We watched some FFM porn and had sex in anticipation.

We replied saying we were free Saturday night or sometime on Sunday.

She replied saying Saturday wouldn't work for her, but she'd let us know about Sunday. A few hours later, she replied again saying Sunday would work and asked what time would be best.

We replied with a time.

And then ... NOTHING.

No response saying something came up or that she changed her mind. Nothing.

Now, in reality, I really wasn't up for it come Sunday evening. I'd spent most of the day in bed feeling absolutely blah. So, all in all, it was probably for the best, but still...

The elusive FFM continues to remain, well, elusive.

One day...

On a separate note, our swinger parties start up again this weekend, so I'll be donning a schoolgirl outfit and heading back to skool. lol. Look for some fun pictures and a little Post-It note action with my sister (for the HNT theme on 10/6).

Have a great weekend!


  1. Sorry for any disappointment on Jasper's part, or yours, but some things work out the way they need to.  You DID have sex and watch some porn, so there's that. And if it makes you feel any better, I didn't have a threesome last weekend either. ;)

  2. Neither did we, though it wasn't for lack of trying on our part!  Sorry you didn't feel so good, but we're glad you made something of the weekend with Jasper.  Can't wait to hear all about the party!


  3. It's all about timing and that's a tricky thing.  Dont' give up, please!  We want to hear the stories....

  4. Know what's really sad? I didn't have a threesome (or any sex for that matter) last weekend either. What's the world coming to?  :-(

  5. Completely agree with Freya.

  6. Ah, Freya! All comments from you make me feel a little better. :-) Thanks for helping put this into perspective.

  7. Thanks, Jill. I'm certain there will be at least some fun stories to share. *wink*

  8. Don't worry. I'm not giving up. :-) You know how I like to share stories.

  9. What?! Now, that's just wrong. Hehhehe.

  10. No sex here either, but that's just par for the course. ;)

    Next week though... mmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

  11. I know everyone says this but when the time is right it will happen and it will be wonderful.  I know it was for us.  :) 



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