HNT: Neck

I recently had a conversation with a blogging friend
about my neck.

Long.

Sinewy.

The kind of neck that deserves to be undressed.
Nibbled.

*click for a slightly different view*

Neck Kiss

Come up behind the person you want to kiss.

Lightly lick the back of her neck, then kiss the back of her neck a few times.

Neck Nibble Kiss

Gently nibble up and down your partner's neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.

Definitions came from here.

e[lust] #25

Photo courtesy of Sadie

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. And in this edition you can read all about the best sexuality conference of the year (ever?), Momentum, in a one-time-only Editor's Choice anomaly: I couldn't choose just one, so I chose them all! Want to be included in e[lust] #26? Start with the rules and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Where We Are - It was only supposed to be about the fucking. I don't know how I convinced myself that it could be. I fretted before we began, about how I could ever possibly separate sex from emotion.
The Edible Slut - His hand made an audible crack as it connected with her ass, loud in the dim bedroom. Did he really sink his hand into her hair, turn her head to face him, and shout, “Stop being such a brat!”
Beyond Bisexual - I don’t identify as bisexual, because I am interested in so many more people than just two of the variety of sexes or genders out there. Except, that is a word that a lot of people understand.

~ Featured: Momentum Conference Posts (Lilly’s Picks) ~
An Extraordinary Gathering (and a Gathering of the Extraordinary)
Finally! A Real Momentum Post
Inspired by MomentumCon
#mcon Rehash
Momentum
Momentumcon, Part One

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To Be or Not To Be....Anonymous, That Is - If you’re out or decide to be out….you’re not just outing yourself. You’re outing them all. And did they give their consent? Probably not, I’d guess. And even if they did give their consent could they even have a clue what consequences there will be?

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Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
A Bump In The Road - A Swinger Party Goes Bad
Bridging the Gap (Between Swinging and BDSM)
con-sent
Eating Pussy
Jane Says: What Does Sex Feel Like For A Man?
Let's talk about food
Safe Word
S&M And Abuse
The Rules, Revisited
The Wet Patch
Who Cares About Your Open Relationship
Where There's Smoke...

Kink & Fetish
BDSM Advice: Nipple Clamps
bloodfucking
Communicating by touch
Consent [Violated]
Debasement
getting ready...
He mixed pleasure and pain, and my body responded to it all
Invitation
Stolen
Safety Scissors
Topping From the Bottom: An Ode
Wantonly Restrained
You Can Make It Feel So Real

Erotic Writing
3. Wrath
Cunt Licking
Definition of Inspiration
Linger
Miss Me?
My Sex Life: The Journey Continues, Part 2
Silk Memories
Sexy Dance-Ing
teacher sweaters and the cock that haunts me
The Casino
The miseducation of Ms. Mullins
Wow. Confession #558
When I come
WWWednesday
You Want This

TMI Tuesday 4/26

1. What sexually could you NOT give up for 40 days and 40 nights of sex?
Hmm...this is a tough one....
Kissing, I guess would have to be my answer. There is simply no way I could go 40 days and 40 nights without giving my husband a kiss of some sort. Everything else would be really difficult to abstain from, and I really wouldn't want to, but ultimately, I probably could.

2. As the weather improves would you have sex outdoors? If yes, where?
Oh, yes! Absolutely - even though it is tricky as we do not have a yard or much privacy outdoors. I would like to have sex down by the river. Or camping under the stars.

3. What is the riskiest place you have had sex? And were you caught?
The riskiest place? I'd guess perhaps outside on campus. Luckily, we weren't caught.

4. Ever mixed food and sex? If so what was it and was it pleasurable?
I don't think so. At least nothing that I can readily recall.

5. Ever used a sex toy for something totally non sexual or something totally non sexual as a sex toy?
Sex toy for some nonsexual? Nope.
Something nonsexual as a sex toy? Candle wax, ice cubes, wine bottle, soda can. Nothing too remarkable. UPDATE: How could I forget hair clips, rubber bands, orange marker?

Bonus:  German immigrants introduced the Easter rabbit, a symbol of fertility for the spring holiday.  This past Sunday, did anyone attempt to fertilize your eggs or did you attempt to fertilize someone's eggs ;-)
I guess not. We did have sex about 4am or so Easter morning, but the finale occurred on my belly and tits. Not much chance of fertilization there. :)

Now skip on over to The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing today!

Monday Memories: Hair Cut Part 2

Ok. This is going to be a really quick memory.

Last week, I described what happened after I first drastically cut my hair. The next time I cut my hair drastically was actually this past summer.

If you've been reading this blog from the beginning, you might know that I went through a bit of a sexual revolution myself in 2010. I started taking risks and enjoying more out of life. Jasper and I spent lots more time talking about our fantasies.

One of which was multiple partners.

August of last year, I chopped my hair the shortest I've ever had it. Again, it was a liberating and freeing experience.

I felt alive.
I felt beautiful.
I felt like a new woman.

Of course, the craziness that was to ensue was only just beginning with that hair cut.

Within two months, Jasper and I had our first threesome encounter, and it was delicious.

I know this isn't the best Monday Memory, but it's late, and I need to get to bed. Here's a picture of my hair when I first got in cut. Perhaps this will make up for the lameness of this post.

Good Friday

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HNT: Bath Time

After a long workout, I decided to soak in the tub tonight with wine, bubbles, and candlelight.

*click for a different view*

"Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness"
~Chinese proverb

I've really been feeling down, off-my-game lately. Perhaps I have been a bit affected by SAD. We got such a beautiful glimpse of springtime and warm weather.
And then it got cold.
Again.

I need to be better about remaining positive.
Kick weather in the ass, so-to-speak.

Happy Thursday, everyone!

Now head over and visit Os for more HNT fun!

And then, of course, there's the OHNT
 for some even naughtier fun.

TMI Tuesday 4/18

1. Have you performed a strip tease for a lover? If you had music, what was the song?
Sadly, no, I have not. Should I add this to my bucket list? lol!

2. "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"...What is it that you will show me?
Idk. Tits?

3. Have you ever let someone else bathe you although you were perfectly capable of doing it yourself?
Absolutely!

4. If you were asked, "does the carpet match the drapes"... Would your answer be "yes" or "no"?
(In case you are not familiar with this idiom, it means does the hair on your head match your pubic hair. I know, classy right? :D :D Hey! It is TMI Tuesday)
When I let my carpet grow, then yes. :) But sometimes, it's all bare.

5. Who has done something within the last 24 hours to show they care for you? What did they do?
A friend (you know who you are) sent me an Easter package with some very cute panties included. Totally out of the blue and made me smile!

UPDATE: Here is a picture of the panties. Aren't they cute?

6. Who was the last person you hugged romantically?
My husband.

7. What do you prefer to do after sex?
a. Go for another round! <----- But sometimes this, too! :)
b. Cuddle and talk
c. Eat
d. Fall asleep <----- Generally this!
e. Shower
f. Get out!

Bonus: Anal sex...giving or receiving, which do you prefer?
Receiving, for sure. I've done a little giving but haven't really enjoyed it incredibly much. Perhaps with time.

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I think my TMI answers are kind of lame, so let me share a couple fun tidbits.

The last time we had sex, it was so good Jasper came a little unexpectedly. I can't remember the position(s) we started out in, but there was a good amount of back and forth between my pussy and mouth, which he loves! The good part came when I lied on my back with him straddling me and my legs together and crossed at the ankles. He fucked me a little like this, but it became unbelievably fantastic for him when I started doing the fucking from underneath. I just bucked my hips until he couldn't help but cum.

It was a little sooner than expected, so when we were finished, he went to clean up while I attacked my clit. After he clipped my nipples, it didn't take long for me to cum. Ooooooo yeah! It was really good.

The other day I was at Whole Foods and ran into CB from the bus. He was shopping with his girlfriend, who, oddly, he didn't introduce me to. We stood and chatted for several minutes, while she flitted around continuing with the shopping. We talked about traveling to the Caribbean and all I could think about was how fun it would be to rip off his clothes...in the Caribbean or anywhere, really. Mmmm....

Monday Memories: Hair Cut (Part 1)

It seems whenever I get my hair drastically cut, I do crazy things.

When I was home for Spring Break during my 2nd year of college, I chopped off my hair.
Several inches.
Gone.

Somehow it was quite liberating.

When break was over, and it was time to return to school, I picked up two girlfriends who were riding back to campus with me. The three of us piled into my little red Dodge Daytona (god, I loved that car) and headed off for the 9-hour road trip.

We were having a great time.
Talking.
Laughing.

About 5 or so hours into the drive, we started car flirting. It was super fun.

There was one van in particular. We flirted with them for quite a few miles. From what we could tell, there were two cute guys in the van, so about 2 1/2 hours from our destination, we took the plunge and upped the ante.

They were taking the next exit.
We weren't sure if it was their final destination or if they were simply getting gas.
I still had a 3/4 tank of gas, but we decided to feign needing a fill-up to see if they were at the gas station, too.

I couldn't believe I was going to do this? I didn't need gas, but with the encouragement of my friends and my short hair cut, I pulled off the exit and into the gas station.

There they were.

I topped off my gas, and we started talking to the guys.
Turns out there were more than 2 guys in the van.

In fact, we'd managed to catch an entire CARAVAN of boys coming home from Spring Break! :) They'd been on Spring Break in MN.
Of all places.
I know.
It still kind of baffles me.

Granted they were high school boys, but we were really only 1 or 2 years out of high school ourselves, so we didn't mind at all.

Plus we were at a women's college, so...

Anyway, they all happened to live about 90 miles from our campus, and we made many, many trips up to see them over the course of the rest of the semester.

Looking back, 90 miles seems a LONG ways, but well, like I said, we were at a women's college. LOL.

Ah. Good times.

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Have you ever picked up someone on the freeway or in another unusal location or fashion? Tell us about it in the comments (or link us to your blog post).

Trying New Positions

I should be doing the dishes or jumping in the shower, but I don't feel like doing those things. I'd kind of rather be going back to bed rather than beginning my day. I've been kind of down lately. Maybe if I write a quick blog post, it will help my mood.

One thing I love about my relationship with my husband is our willingness to try new things. It surprises me how some times just the tiniest of change in position can make a world of change.

The other day, I was lying on the bed.
On my stomach.
Naked.

Jasper came up behind me and just starting kissing my ass. It was indescribly fantastic. He was showering me with light, little kisses right where my ass cheeks met my legs. I can't recall him ever doing this before. Maybe he had. Maybe he hadn't. I just know how incredibly good it felt. I know, technically, they were not butterfly kisses, but that's what it felt like to me in my mind as I lied there enjoying his attention.

As we progessed in the session, we also tried a new anal position. I remained lying on my stomach while he lied on top of me, but with his head down by my feet. We were both horizontal on our stomachs with his cock in my ass. It worked really well for us, and felt omygod so amazing. Plus it's fun to grab onto his feet as my bod began to quiver.

We've done it in this position a few more times. Mmmm...

Now my panties are damp, my nipples are hard, and I've got to get ready for class.

I'm off to take a nice, hot, steamy (if you catch my drift) shower.

Happy Friday!

HNT: Glasses

In case you missed it here or here, I got new glasses last Saturday. I'll still normally wear contacts, but now I have some cute glasses to wear when my eyes need a little break.

**click to see the rest of the picture**

"I wear my wife's eyeglasses because she wants me to see things her way"
~Jayson Feinburg

Now head over and visit Os for more HNT fun!

And then, of course, there's the OHNT
 for some even naughtier fun.

TMI Tuesday 4/12

1. What is your favorite part of sex?

I know it's going to sound cliche, but I'm not afraid to admit that orgasm is my favorite part. I do love the build-up and the tease and so many other parts, but that feeling of complete, intense, overpowering ecstasy? Yeah, that's got to be my favorite. Hands down.

2. Have you asked your significant other or spouse what their biggest sexual fantasy is? Did you like it or are you not interested? What is it?
Hmm...Let me go ask right now...
He said, "My biggest sexual fantasy? I can't say I have a biggest. I just have a lot that are big."
I told him that was good enough for TMI Tuesday. :)) Hopefully, I have some fun times ahead of me.

3. Do you enjoy phone sex?
I have actually never really had phone sex. Honestly, it scares me a little. What would I say? Would it be erotic? I don't always like the sound of my own voice, but I think I could certainly get on board with someone talking dirty to me and just letting me gasp and moan and enjoy. Yes, that sounds very good indeed!

4. Have you ever had a sexy nickname? How did you get it? What is it?
Sexy? No, I can't really think of anything.

5. What's your favorite color lingerie?
I'm inclined to say red. I think that's just about the sexiest color! I personally don't really own anything that is sexy red, but I love to see a black and white photo with the red highlighted. If not red, then I'd say a bold orange. I also like the classic black.

6. Have you ever had sex with "just a friend" and gone back to "just being" friends?
Yes. You can read a little about it here.

7. If in a romantic relationship or marriage, what is the best thing about it right now?

I think the best thing is trying new things - sexually and otherwise. We have a lot of fun together in various exploits. Laughter is huge, of course, too.

 

Bonus: How did your last relationship end?

Horribly, actually. He broke up with me. Gave some BS reason about how he didn't like the way I dressed. Ridiculous. We'd met at church and both still went to church. We were in a congregation with mostly young adults like us, and days after he broke my heart, he basically told the whole congregation that he was available. What a douche!

Go see Hedone at The Pleasure Principle to see who else is playing.

Monday Memories: BK BJ

Not sure why I've been thinking about this memory lately, but I fondly remember one late night run to Burger King. We were hungry ... and horny.

My boyfriend drove a full size van. Perhaps not the hottest ride, but it worked just fine.

Anyway, I knelt between the two front seats and unzipped his jeans, releasing his hard cock. It was very late at night (perhaps 1AM or so), and the line was quite long. This was not unusual for the section of town where we lived.

I sucked as we waited.
I sucked as he placed our order.
I sucked as we pulled up to the window to pay.

No.
Wait.

I was way too shy back then. As we approached the window, I quickly jumped back into my seat. Not sure if I even bothered to put him back in place.

After we got our food, I'm sure the smell and taste of the BK fries won their place in my mouth.

Hehe. Guess I was a tease even way back then.

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What about you? Ever given or received a bj in an odd place or situation?

HNT: Baking

It is patience

It is understanding 

the
ebb
and
flow 

 Of ingredients
Of Environmental factors 

It is flirting

with formulations

to achieve

the ultimate

in taste combination -

Whether 

that result achieved

is

simplistic

or 

quite complicated.

Baking is 

the warmth of a stack oven
Of the freshly
de-panned product.

Baking is

 the satisfaction
Of creation.
 Of the tears 

which 

well in their eyes

when a taste, a smell

invokes 

memories
of home,

Of a loved one

that 

has
passed on.

Baking is
the alcoholic fumes

permeating

from a container

that
housed 

your starter -

your poolish -

your biga -

or 

your mix.

Baking is intoxication.

 Amber ©2010. All Rights Reserved

*don't forget to click*

Now head over and visit Os for more HNT fun!

And then, of course, there's the OHNT for some even naughtier fun.

Monday Memories: 1st Anal

A begged me for years to let him try my ass.

No way!
Too gross. Too wrong.
No, thank you.

I don't think I ever let him even try.
Not even a finger.

My ass was way off limits.

Then our relationship ended.

A few months later, I found myself on vacation in Hawaii.
I was supposed to be visiting an old college friend, which, ulimately, I was BUT we went out on the town my first night there, and well, I hooked up with a nice (hehe) Navy boy and, well, pretty much ended up spending most of my vacation hanging out with him.

One of our first nights together, the topic of anal came up.
I'm not sure what magical words he used to convince me to give it a try, but I said yes.

He was ill-prepared.
No lube in the house.

So, while I waited on his bed, he snuck off to the kitchen for some oil.
Olive, I think.

He slicked up my ass and his cock and slid right in.

This was quite a long time ago now.
I don't really remember anything about how it felt.

But I do know how much I love it NOW!
Well, not all the time, but I definitely couldn't imagine life without it.
Mmmm....

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Now tell us about your first experience with anal. Leave a comment with your memory or with a link to a post on your blog.

Mild Fetish

I've discovered that I have a tiny bit of a tie fetish. Simply the thought of a guy wearing a tie is incredibly intoxicating. I honestly don't know what it is, but I just love that!

As I walk through the skyways on my way to/from work now, I find myself seeking out men in ties.

Here's a little sampling of what I found on Tumblr.

He's so HOT...he's stopping traffic...

Ok. This guy totally should've cropped out the toilet, but still he is very yummy!

Oh yes! You can just tell this guy has some tasty abs under that tie.

This is my FAVORITE.
That grin
*swoon*
The state of undress.
*fans myself*
Day-um!

And I couldn't leave out this cutie!



FFF: Smoky Haze

(Source image: "Dita's Bear" by Sean McCall)
100-200 words
"...smoky haze..."

There was a smoky haze outside as I fought my way up the mountain to her cabin. I had received her note and was anxious to see what I would find waiting for me. Now if only I could find my way to this cabin. The haze and the unfamiliarity of my surroundings are making me weary.

There! Up ahead!

My eyes finally rest upon a quaint, little, rustic cabin. There is no sign of another vehicle, and I wonder if she has gotten waylaid somewhere. Sensing disappointment, I park and walk to the door.

As I knock, I think I hear someone…or thing… stirring inside, so I gingerly turn the knob and press the door open.

A smile immediately illuminates my face as I discover my lover beckoning to me from the bear rug in the center of the one-room cabin. My cock twitches as I take in the beauty of her voluptuous breasts staring out at me from the opening of her satin robe and her sultry smile begging me to join her.

I run to her, taking her in my arms. My fingers entwining in her hair as our eyes lock and our lips meet.

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