Monday, March 7, 2011

Monday Memories: Losing It

I actually found some time this morning before class to write this week's memory. Yeah me!

Source: softmovements
The first time a girl (or guy) has sex is supposed to be magical, right? Or at least memorable. :) Alas, my first time was neither really. I may be one of the very few, but I don't really remember much of my first time.

I was twenty, a junior in college. I'd recently decided to leave behind the religious teachings of my youth, and I'd been dating A for a couple of weeks. Even back then, in my naivete, I moved pretty quickly. He was a year younger than me and much more experienced sexually. We had good chemistry, and I wanted to try sex. For sure.

The very first time we tried, it just didn't work. I don't really remember what happened. Perhaps I was too nervous (I do believe his roommate was asleep in the same room. Damn! We were inconsiderate). Or simply not wet enough. Either way, I think I must have complained about it hurting or something because he (being a gentleman) stopped. We probably continued to make-out, and I probably still spent the night wrapped in his arms.

We tried again a few days later. Much more successfully. I don't really remember that time, either.

Must have been good, though, because I moved in with him a few months later and continued to date him for more than 3 years.

How about you? What was your first time like? Do you remember the sounds, the smells? Was it magical? We'd love to hear about, so please link up and/or leave a comment!


  1. My first time was not all that magical; it was with an older married woman who was not all that attractive. I suppose that is a rude thing to say but it is the truth. I was 22 and still a virgin so you can call it a desperation fuck; I just wanted to get laid and she said yes.
    This is back in the early 90's. The internet was still pretty new to most of us. I was one of many guys trolling on AOL looking for a hook up; I found one. She lived an hour away, was not happy in her marriage and was looking for some fun. We agreed to meet up near where I worked at the time. There was a fairly cheap motel nearby and I had reserved a room early that morning (it was not an hourly place).
    That day after work I met up with her and we went to a local park to stroll around and chat some. It did not take too long before we decided to headback to the room.
    The sex was decent but I admit to having some problem with the fact that she was so heavy. Still, we fucked and sucked for a couple of hours then web and had something to eat before parting ways and never seeing each other again.

    The End.

  2. Mister Linky isn't behaving for me. I'll try again later.

    My first time is here ( It was partly magical, but mostly mortifying. :-)

  3. I like this one - I'll have to write up my first time, as I don't think I've yet told it.

    BTW, the picture above is just so incredibly sexy. Such an amazing, passionate, intimate position to be in.

  4. I've linked but not sure if it worked. It's so hard to recall some of the more important details like everything leading up to it and his reaction. Thanks for the prompt down memory lane!

  5. Linky no love me, but it's okay. I'd already written about this topic, actually, so I'd feel a bit like cheating if the linky had worked. The picture accompanying is terrific, by the way.


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