Sunday, May 1, 2011

Date Night

The last time we met up with CL1, we were pretty disappointed. He was several hours late and then only hung out with us for a short while before we all separated and went to our own homes. It was really frustrating!

After that encounter, we decided we would leave meeting up again to him. The first time was so good, so we were willing to give him another try.

So, the Saturday before Easter, when I received a text message from CL1, Jasper and I were really excited! He wanted to know when we could all get together again. After a few texts back and forth, we decided to meet up Friday night at a bar downtown.  We hadn't been out in awhile, plus it's always exciting to have the possibility of having a threesome.

We met around 9pm at a pretty crowded tequila bar. Jasper and I ordered drinks while we waited. We were pleasantly surprised when CL1 showed up. He looked good! He ordered a drink, and we hung out at the bar for awhile - enjoying good conversation and good margaritas.

Another bar patron joined our conversation for a few minutes. He was pretty hot, too. Reminded me a little of Vince Vaughn. Him coming over to chat with us boosted my ego a little.

Damn, I was looking hot that night! After our second round was finished, I suggested we head to another bar. It's a fun outdoor bar with a fire in the center. It's generally a little quieter and more mellow. Unfortunately, it wasn't really open. We could have ordered drinks inside and then taken them out to the bar, but there was no bar service outside.

CL1 suggested we go to a rooftop bar a couple blocks away. We've been there before as well and really enjoyed it, so the three of us walked to that bar and headed to the rooftop. When we got to the floor below the roof, CL1 said he needed to go to the bathroom and that he would meet us on the roof. We said ok - not thinking anymore about it.

After about 5 minutes, we joked that we'd give him another 15 before heading home. Unfortunately, that joke turned into reality.

We waited and waited.

Finally, I sent a text message asking if everything was OK and if he was still coming to the roof.

No response.

WTF??

I mean I was looking damn good.
I had been more talkative than usual.
The conversation seemed to be going very well. 

We don't know what happened.

The timing was horrible, too. We missed the last free shuttle by only 5 minutes. The next train was 15 or so minutes away, so we ended up taking a cab home.

The night wasn't a complete disaster. At least Jasper and I did enjoy some amazing sex when we got home.

The day, I tried my best to not dwell on the events of the night before. I tried not to figure out what went wrong. What I could have done differently to change things. Pretty sure, though, we won't be giving CL1 another chance.

Afterall, we still have not received any explanation.

21 comments:

  1. CL1 is an absolute fool for passing up the chance to join you! I'd say it's not you, it's him, no doubt about it.

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  2. wtf is that all about. what a goof ball. no love lost there!

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  3. WTF indeed. He's not only a loser with a capital "L", but a coward. If it's not feeling right, say something, don't just run away without a word. Sheesh....

    I hope you don't let it bother you - the problem is all his....

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  4. I'm in full agreement with all the rest here, what a goob! 1st he misses out on a wonderful evening with one of the hottest bloggers in the land, and 2nd, he's an ass and a coward for bailing out like that.

    What a jerk!

    I'm glad you finished off the evening well, and yes, you looked hot.

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  5. Thanks, everyone! I've abandoned any thoughts of trying to figure out what happened. He's totally not worth my time or energy.

    Now, we just need to find someone new...

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  6. What a jerk...you deserve better !!!

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  7. I've never been so fortunate to have a threesome available to me. But I'd be willing to guess that the last thing I would do is run away with my tail between my legs. It's his loss! At least you made it up with amazing sex regardless. You deserve to be treated better. Good luck with your search.

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  8. What a douche?! Seriously what guy would walk away from a hottie that wants sex lol baffles me Hope you find someone more fun

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  9. CL1 is the only loser here. Don't give him any more chances.

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  10. That is a real bummer, he could have handled this so much better, like not coming out for the date night in the first place unless he was totally into it. What a waste.

    It still sucks though, and I feel bad for you, but at least this gives someone else a chance which will be way better for everyone!

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  11. That sucks Lola! You did look amazing in that picture too. Oh well - his loss, and at least you made up for it with some great 1-on-1 sex anyways!

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  12. Hubman, Yes, you are right. He definitely had something going on...and it clearly wasn't us.

    That Girl, Exactly!

    Max, Definitely cowardly. Why not just say something? *sigh* Oh well.

    A54, What a goob! LOL. You don't hear that one everyday. ha! I don't know about one of the hottest bloggers in the land, but thanks!

    Jeff, Yes, yes, I do!!

    Silas, Thanks! We're looking, so if you're available... :)

    SB, Very baffling, indeed, and I hope so, too.

    Gaz, Thanks, I doubt we will.

    Marcus, I agree! He totally could've handled it differently. Like, either not coming out or telling us he wasn't interested once out. We're adults, afterall. I'm sure we could've handled the rejection.

    GoodWill, Thanks! When we were certain he wasn't going to join us on the roof, J said to me, I don't know what his problem was, you look incredible tonight, and I still intend on fucking you like mad when we get home. :)

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  13. We found it much harder to find a male for a MFM than to find a female for FMF. A lot of guys seem to talk a good game but when it comes time to play they chicken out. As several above said he is responsible for his actions (or lack of) not you. Good luck on your next try.

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  14. No worries lady... Don't over think it (I do that and it kills ya) I bet the serch turns into a line of potential candidates

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  15. Southern Swinger, You'll have to let me in on your secret. We've had much more success finding males than females, and oh, how I'd love to truly experience an FMF.

    Gigi, Thankfully, I didn't let the overthinking go on much past the next day. :)

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  16. Sounds like you need to go back to that Vince Vaughn fella and see what he is all about.

    BTW - boots and skirt combo = lovely.

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  17. Monty, If I were ever to run into him again, believe me, I'd totally ramp up my flirting. ;)

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  18. Sounds like you need to go back to that Vince Vaughn fella and see what he is all about.

    BTW - boots and skirt combo = lovely.

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  19. Hubman, Yes, you are right. He definitely had something going on...and it clearly wasn't us.

    That Girl, Exactly!

    Max, Definitely cowardly. Why not just say something? *sigh* Oh well.

    A54, What a goob! LOL. You don't hear that one everyday. ha! I don't know about one of the hottest bloggers in the land, but thanks!

    Jeff, Yes, yes, I do!!

    Silas, Thanks! We're looking, so if you're available... :)

    SB, Very baffling, indeed, and I hope so, too.

    Gaz, Thanks, I doubt we will.

    Marcus, I agree! He totally could've handled it differently. Like, either not coming out or telling us he wasn't interested once out. We're adults, afterall. I'm sure we could've handled the rejection.

    GoodWill, Thanks! When we were certain he wasn't going to join us on the roof, J said to me, I don't know what his problem was, you look incredible tonight, and I still intend on fucking you like mad when we get home. :)

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  20. Southern Swinger, You'll have to let me in on your secret. We've had much more success finding males than females, and oh, how I'd love to truly experience an FMF.

    Gigi, Thankfully, I didn't let the overthinking go on much past the next day. :)

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  21. wtf is that all about. what a goof ball. no love lost there!

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