A is for ...

Anal.

It's no secret that Jasper and I occasionally enjoy a bit of anal sex. Not every time by any means, and generally only when I'm particularly in the mood for it.

But sometimes, I want it so bad.

I love the look on Jasper's face when I ask him if he'd like to fuck my ass. Sometimes it's a seductive whisper. Other times, it's a plain old question. And yet other times it's while in the throes of a passionate session.

Regardless of how I ask, he is always more than willing to indulge me.

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Tickle My Tush

Tickle My Tush
by Dr. Sadie Allison

A LONG time ago, I was approached by the publisher of this book to do a review. It's long overdue, but I figure better late than never. *wink*

Always wanted to try anal, but didn't know where to start?
Long-time enjoyer of anal, but want to learn some new tricks?

THEN THIS IS THE BOOK FOR YOU!

Sadie has lots of helpful advice to get you started - from why you should do it to cleaning and preparation to exactly how to get started. The book is written in a fun and easy-to-read way with LOTS of great illustrations and helpful tips.

The first six chapters are all about the preparation. Why would anyone want to have anal sex? Is anal sex safe? What about hygiene? What's the backdoor anatomy? What can we do to get in the mood for anal? All these questions and more are answered in these chapters. Even if you're experienced at this type of sexual play, I think there is a lot of great information in these chapters - at the very least it's a good review to help keep you nice and safe.

The next three chapters get into more specifics of what to do. She starts with fingering, moves to licking, and then penetration. She provides great advice on doing all three of these activities, but what I like most is the amount of variety that she provides for each stage. So, even if you're unsure how far you want to go with anal play, there is definitely something for most everyone. Even within these chapters, there are different levels depending on how mild or wild you want to be.

The last few chapters of the book deal with reaching orgasm, anal toys including an entire chapter on strap-ons, and a breakdown of various anal positions.

Something else I enjoyed about this book was that it gives advice for both partners. It is geared a little more toward pleasing the woman, but there are enough examples of pleasing males to help even it out. Of course, Jasper not really into that not sure I'd be either to be honest, but we've got some good advice if our kink ever heads that direction.

If you and your partner are at all curious about anal play, I would highly recommend this book! Try reading it with your partner to get you started. The illustrations and helpful advice is also a bit stimulating, if you know what I mean. *wink*

If you're interested in adding this book to your collection, it can be purchased at the following retailers:
Amazon
Barnes & Noble
Tickle Kitty

Do you experiment with anal play? Why/why not? 
If you do, what's your best piece of advice? Favorite position?
Have you read this book? What did you think?


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Pixie Curve - Ooh la la

The other day I was reading this blog post about butt sex. Hubman posed the question to his readers about their preference on talking about anal sex.

I've dabbled a bit with anal sex, and I thought I'd answer his question here on Sex Babble. When talking about it, I prefer anal sex (obviously, since I've written it 3 times that way already). When in the throes of a sexual escapade; however, I prefer a shouted "fuck my ass!" or a whispered "Do you want to fuck my ass?"

I've been known to express an occasional, "Am I your anal slut?" or "Do you like fucking your anal whore?"

I guess I'm not very creative. Perhaps I should branch out. Any suggestions?

Speaking of anal sex, we recently tried out the Pixie Curve.

This toy was really fun! It's soft and squishy and PINK. I liked the unique shape and was excited to try it out.

It's circumference is 5 1/2" at the thickest part, so it's not exactly for the faint of heart. We had a little difficulty getting it into my ass because of its girth, but a little vigorous clit rubbing helped ease it right into place.

And I'll never complain about a little clit rubbing. lol.

Once firmly inside, this baby stayed put, which is awesome because it leaves our hands free for other kinds of exploring without having to worry about it unexpectedly popping out. This has often a problem for us with other anal toys that we've tried.

I really enjoyed having this inside my ass while Jasper fucked my pussy. He says it felt pretty great as well. This is a definite keeper in our ever-expanding collection of sex toys.

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Trying New Positions

I should be doing the dishes or jumping in the shower, but I don't feel like doing those things. I'd kind of rather be going back to bed rather than beginning my day. I've been kind of down lately. Maybe if I write a quick blog post, it will help my mood.

One thing I love about my relationship with my husband is our willingness to try new things. It surprises me how some times just the tiniest of change in position can make a world of change.

The other day, I was lying on the bed.
On my stomach.
Naked.

Jasper came up behind me and just starting kissing my ass. It was indescribly fantastic. He was showering me with light, little kisses right where my ass cheeks met my legs. I can't recall him ever doing this before. Maybe he had. Maybe he hadn't. I just know how incredibly good it felt. I know, technically, they were not butterfly kisses, but that's what it felt like to me in my mind as I lied there enjoying his attention.

As we progessed in the session, we also tried a new anal position. I remained lying on my stomach while he lied on top of me, but with his head down by my feet. We were both horizontal on our stomachs with his cock in my ass. It worked really well for us, and felt omygod so amazing. Plus it's fun to grab onto his feet as my bod began to quiver.

We've done it in this position a few more times. Mmmm...

Now my panties are damp, my nipples are hard, and I've got to get ready for class.

I'm off to take a nice, hot, steamy (if you catch my drift) shower.

Happy Friday!

Monday Memories: 1st Anal

A begged me for years to let him try my ass.

No way!
Too gross. Too wrong.
No, thank you.

I don't think I ever let him even try.
Not even a finger.

My ass was way off limits.

Then our relationship ended.

A few months later, I found myself on vacation in Hawaii.
I was supposed to be visiting an old college friend, which, ulimately, I was BUT we went out on the town my first night there, and well, I hooked up with a nice (hehe) Navy boy and, well, pretty much ended up spending most of my vacation hanging out with him.

One of our first nights together, the topic of anal came up.
I'm not sure what magical words he used to convince me to give it a try, but I said yes.

He was ill-prepared.
No lube in the house.

So, while I waited on his bed, he snuck off to the kitchen for some oil.
Olive, I think.

He slicked up my ass and his cock and slid right in.

This was quite a long time ago now.
I don't really remember anything about how it felt.

But I do know how much I love it NOW!
Well, not all the time, but I definitely couldn't imagine life without it.
Mmmm....

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Now tell us about your first experience with anal. Leave a comment with your memory or with a link to a post on your blog.

You Want This

You want to feel your cock down my throat.
Your balls pressed into my chin.
My nose in your belly.
Hear my moans as I gasp for air.
My tongue swirling around your shaft, your glans.
Getting your cock dripping wet.
Plunging into my drenched cunt.
Thrusting in and out.
Listening to the sounds our bodies make.
So fucking wet.
Gooey, slobbery, sloppy sounds.
You turn me over.
Fuck me on my hands and knees until my arms collapse underneath me and my body quivers with pleasure.
Firmly grasping my hips as your pump harder, deeper, faster inside me.
Grabbing my hair.
Pulling my head up.
Making me turn and look over my shoulder, up into your eyes.
You slide your cock out of my pussy, dripping with my juices and slowly press into my ass.
Taking it nice and slow, letting me feel your cock fill me.
Small movements in and out, slowly making your way inside until you're balls deep.
Grabbing my hips, and moving ever so slightly. Letting me adjust to your cock.
And then pulling out and thrusting back in.
Fast.
Hard.
With one swift motion.
I whimper in pleasure mixed with just a touch of pain.
My moans deepen as you continue thrusting.
Fucking my ass.
Feeling it's tightness surround your cock. Again and again.
My hand moves down to rub my clit in pace with your thrusts.
My pussy is still dripping.
So wet.
So creamy.
My clit responds well to the touch of my fingers and my body begins to quiver once more.
I grind my ass onto your cock.
Needing to feel you deep, deep inside me.
You hold me there.
Your balls tightening when you feel me start to quiver again.
You fuck me harder.
Watching my body quiver.
Your fingers digging into my ass, my neck.
You thrust harder, losing control.
Grunting and moaning louder.
You still for a moment. Watching as I move my ass off and on your cock.
You can't take it anymore.
I can't take it anymore.
I collapse on the bed while you continue fucking me.
Harder.
Faster.
Deeper.
Fucking.
Fucking
Fucking.
You let go of my neck.
Running your hands back to my ass, taking a hip in each hand.
I feel you grabbing my hips and throwing me back onto your cock with each thrust.
You watch my tits bounce each time.
Listening to the sound of your hips slapping against my ass.
Your balls bouncing against my pussy until, finally, your head empties.
Your eyes close.
You feel the explosion building inside.
With a final primal yell you plunge in all the way, holding my hips tightly against you, as I feel your cock throb over and over again, spurting warm creamy cum into my ass with each spasm.

Study Break

I have a huge paper due on Wed, so after work I did some studying before heading home. I needed a break.

I walked in the door, and told my husband that I was cold and tired. I told him I needed him to fuck my ass to warm me up. After that, I’d take a nap before hitting the books again.

He asked if he could eat something first.
(silly boy – who would choose food over fucking?)
Of course, I said that would be okay, so while he was eating, I began preparing.

I laid a towel down on the bed, grabbed the lube and my toy,
and settled down on my back.
With lots of lube, I fingered my ass a bit to loosen it up.
Then I slid in my favorite blue dildo.
While sliding it in and out, I started rubbing my clit with my other hand.

Mmmm...it felt. so. good! I began to moan and writhe in pleasure.

Finally, he finished eating (and allowed his stomach to settle just a bit).
Straddling my chest, I continued playing with myself,
and he brought his cock to my mouth.
I could feel it swelling harder and harder - filling my cavity so nicely.

Moving down, I slid the toy out and welcomed his cock in its place.
With my legs high in the air, he slowly slid inside me. Oooh! Mmmm.
He held my legs up while I rubbed my clit.

I needed more, so I put my legs down and
positioned my ass directly in line with his cock.
He leaned back, supporting himself with his hands.
I grabbed hold of the towel I was lying on, and, using my legs,
I slid my ass up and down on his cock.
Up and down.
Up and down.
Oh. Oh! OH!!

As the intensity of the pure pleasure subsided, he rolled me over to my side - propping my left leg up on his shoulder.
This was probably the best anal position we've done in a while.
He could really fuck my ass good and hard,
and I had good access to my rub myself. Some more.

I gave into the pleasure. Yes!

He wanted a better view, so he moved my leg off his shoulder and positioned it just right to watch his cock sliding in and out.
In and out.
In and out.

It's not often I can cum with him in my ass without rubbing my clit,
but today he felt so wonderful.
I came hard in this last position.
Knowing he was enjoying the view, the tightness of my ass.
Knowing he was enjoying fucking me harder, longer than usual.

He pulled out and came on my face.
I love the feel of the hot spurts showering me, coating me.
I opened my mouth to try and catch a few drops.

Licking my lips, I reached for the toy, and fucked my ass just a tiny bit more.
Cumming one last time.
Completely sated, I collapsed back on the bed.
I rested a few minutes, relishing in the joy of such a wonderful afternoon fuck.

Mmmm.

I showered, took a short nap, and now I must hit the books and work on my paper.

Massage...and a good night...

Jasper's back (and butt and hamstrings and calves) has been hurting him at lot lately. Basically, there's been a knife stabbing him throughout the day for more than a week. I hate to see him in such pain, so I wanted to do something special for him last night.

Inspired by Marcus over at Fun and Dirty Thoughts, I decided I'd surprise him with a nice massage - complete with oil and candlelight. I'd slipped into something sexy, lit candles all around the bedroom, and waited. When he got home from class, I was ready.

He was all too happy to accept.

He lied down on his stomach, and I poured a generous amount of oil into my hands. Starting with his low back, where the pain had intensified, I worked him with my hands, forearms, elbows. Adding just the right amount of pressure, I could hear him gently moan at how good it felt. I worked up and down his corded muscles, offering the little reprieve from pain that I could.

I moved down to his buttocks. Massaging. Gently grazing between his cheeks. Down to the hamstrings and calves. The oil, making it so easy to get down and deep, moved my hands around his body effortlessly. I worked his inner thigh.

This was the best, longest, massage I've ever given him, and I could definitely feel myself getting wet as I gently brushed his cock and balls, working my way up to his lower back again.

I slipped off my bra and panties, and asked him to roll over. I wanted to massage his front area. I grabbed his cock in my oiled palm and stroked it up and down, feeling it pulse against me. I gingerly rubbed his balls as I put his erect cock in my mouth.

I love a nice dick in my mouth, and he loves having it there. He grabbed my hair and fucked my face. Gentle at first, then with more intensity. I could feel his cock slapping against the back of my throat. And then slide in deep and deeper until his head penetrated the well, and I could take no more. I came back up, letting my spit linger and drip down his cock.

I needed him inside me! I climbed up cowgirl style, sliding him inside my tight pussy. I could feel him filling my cavity as he slowly pushed his way inside me. I fucked him with long and gentle strokes, coming slightly off each time. Enjoying the long ride with each stride. On and off. In and out.

Leaning back, I gyrated my hips and ground him deep, deep inside me.

I wanted more. I wanted to feel him in my ass.

Leaning forward, I reached my hand around to finger my ass. It was completely covered with cream. I'd never felt so much of myself slip between my fingers. It was delicious! I caressed my ass between my cheeks, pushing slightly on my hole.

"I want you in my ass, honey."

I reached for his cock, rubbing my juices up and down his shaft. I positioned it over my asshole and slowly pushed until it filled me quite nicely. He grabbed my hips and fucked my ass. It felt so good to have his slippery cock thrust inside me. Again and again. And again.

I leaned back, so I could have good access to rub my clit while grinding down on him. Allowing his cock to penetrated even deeper. Moving slightly up and down his shaft, and I rubbed my clit fiercely. I know just how I like it, and it feels even more fantastic with a cock in my ass.

Oh. Oh! Oh!!

My body trembling, I collapsed on his chest with a smile on my face.

Completely sated.

Wanna lick?

Ass Play

From the time I was a young girl, I've been somewhat fascinated with ass play. I remember beginning with crayons. I think I was only 8 or so. It wasn't really sexual. It was more taboo, I think. I don't really remember. That was a long time ago.

As I grew into a teenager, the sensations became more sexual. It felt good! Still, I pretty much limited myself to pens, pencils, crayons. Is there something subliminal there?

As an adult the taboo-ness of the act was too overwhelming. I pretty much stopped. When I finally lost my virginity in my early 20s, ass play was not even an option in my mind. My boyfriend asked me on a few occasions, but it was just too wrong for me to even consider.

It wasn't until after my first long-term relationship ended that I finally allowed someone to fuck my ass.

Oh my!

I was on vacation. We used olive oil as lube. It was fantastic.

Now, I can't imagine not having anal sex as a part of my regular sex repertoire.

Delicious!

Yesterday, I wore a thong to work and no undershirt beneath my bra. It had been years since I'd done that.

The result was the most delicious feeling!

The thong gently rubbed inside the cheeks of my ass, sending nearly intolerable sensations throughout my body.

My shirt billowed in the breeze and randomly grazed the skin of my stomach. It was nice like a gentle caress.

These sensations continued throughout my day. It was most difficult to concentrate on my work. All I could think about was getting home to fuck my love. I wanted him inside every part of him. I wanted to feel him caress my stomach, my breasts.

I could only take so much, so during lunch, I snuck off to our favorite adult store--which is conveniently located a mere two and half blocks from my office building. I spent a few minutes browsing the clothing in the store. Imaging surprising Jasper with something fun and erotic. Wondering what would give us both the most pleasure. He'd mentioned school-girl fantasies before, so I finally opted for a very slutty school-girl outfit.

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After work, I was still absolutely worked up. I innocently suggested that we go downtown for dinner. He had no idea what I had in store for him.

We took our time at dinner -- drinking up the sights of so many tight, little asses in short skirts passing along the patio of the restaurant.

When I could take no more, I said I had a surprise. Let's go home.

The bra came off in the car. The pants came unzipped. Jasper's strong hands moved over to my aching triangle. One finger, two fingers. Each twist and turn of the road intensified his fingering. I was on fire.

Give me a minute, sweetie. Let me get that surprise ready.

Slipping into the lingerie heightened all the sensations from the entire day. I nearly felt like exploding just doing that. I also was feeling a little daring, so when Jasper suggested I take that outfit into the hall of our apartment building. I was deliciously excited to do so.

The thrill of public sex was tantalizing!

I leaned up against the wall, posing.

Next I knew Jasper had bent me over and slipped his cock into my tight ass. Sliding in and out, the feeling of wearing that thong exacerabated beyond all belief.